namaz mTeaching our Kids and teenagers to perform prayers, is a delicate and often stressful matter for families. My son is of 8 years now and I have started teaching him about prayers and its importance, Its satisfying to see him taking interest in performing Prayer. Last year has taken classes in AlHuda international, where they taught kids practically and visually.

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I will post here few videos which will help you out for teaching Salah to your kids. Here are few important points which will be helpful for you.

Children must be instructed and encouraged to do salat from the ages of puberty, the same as adults. The saying of the prophet, “Encourage them in salat at 7 years and thump them at 10. If they don’t – lightly tap them (but not harsh).

Note the key word in the hadith above, “encourage”. What is it that would encourage our children to do anything?

They must want to do it. There must be some attraction or benefit they want to acheive.

So let them begin with knowing about Allah and who He is and why we want to be close to Him in Jennah (paradise).

Help them to read Quran in Arabic, and learn about the meaning of the words, as this will be something they will really benefit in later years, Inshallah.

Set the example for your children yourself. After all, when they see you do something, it is very likely they will try to copy you in all you do. Seeing you fasting, praying, giving charity, being patient, helping neighbors and all things Islam teaches us, sets the course for our children more than any video or lecture I could ever do.

1. Set the example
As is the case with all other good habits, parents, mentors, teachers, and others young Muslims look up to must be praying themselves. But we need to not only be offering our prayers. We must also truly reflect the level of concentration and commitment it takes, by praying on time, doing our best to focus, and offering the prayers diligently.

2. Establish prayer in the home
Kids learn faith first and foremost from the family and within the home. This is where prayer as a way of connecting to Allah needs to be discussed and shown in practice. Make it a habit to pray in congregation when going to the Masjid is not possible. Avoid having everyone pray in their own little corner of the house. Start today by designating one space of the home for this purpose.

3. Use technology
Texting is replacing talking among teens. Teens spend nearly an equal amount of time talking as they do texting each month. The feature is so important to them that if texting were no longer an option 47% of teens say their social life would end or be worsened.

They also say texting has advantages over talking because it offers more options, including multitasking, speed, the option to avoid verbal communication, and because it is fun – in that order, according to the study.
Text your teen when it’s time to pray. Encourage them to set up reminders on their cell phone to offer their Salah or download an app for this purpose. This will make it more fun and help weave prayer into their lives in a practical way.

4. Nudge them toward friendships with the prayerful
Prophet Muhammad, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “a man follows the religion of his friend; so each one should consider whom he makes his friend” (Abu Dawud).

Observe which youth in your community are serious about their five daily prayers and wisely encourage your youth to befriend them. Those young Muslims who have successfully incorporated Salah as part of their lifestyle are role models, especially in this day and age, when myriad distractions pull our hearts and minds far, far away from God.

You can encourage friendships by planning playdates for younger kids. For older ones, praising the youth in question can offer the necessary nudge, as well as indirectly offering ways for the two to meet and hang out together, by for example attending the same events, weekend school, meeting as a family for dinner, etc.

5. Openly praise those who pray
If forging friendships with youth who pray is not possible, at least openly praise those who are diligent in fulfilling this obligation. Even as young Muslims become more independent with age, they still seek parental approval and appreciation. Praising a peer sends the message that you value Salah and that it’s important.

6. Don’t discourage even small steps toward prayer
True story: a 14-year-old in California had just finished praying Isha, something she had done most likely for the first time ever. Excitedly, she ran to her mother and told her about the 4,2, and 3 units she had offered, hoping she’d be proud. Instead, her mother scoffed, “that’s the small prayer. You’re supposed to offer 17 Rakat.”

This kind of discouragement kills initiative, to say the least. Prayer is a long-term commitment that requires the kind of dedication that’s hard to muster for many older people, let alone young people distracted by the ding of texts on their phone or other issues. Praise even the performance of a short, two-Rakat prayer, and encourage youth to take it to the next level.

7. Don’t discount strength in numbers
Whenever possible, pray in congregation with other Muslims outside of the family, especially other youth. This can be at weekend school, or even joining one of the prayers at a full-time Islamic school with the administration’s permission. This will show that prayer isn’t something “weird” that only you and your family do. Rather, it is something other young Muslims do regularly, as well.

8. Make prayer time parent time
At a parenting workshop I attended a few years ago, the speaker shared how she offered her children two types of reward for good behavior: a tangible treat or one-on-one time with each parent. She said she was surprised when the kids always chose time with their mother or father over a trinket.

Taking this into account, spend a few minutes after each prayer with your young Muslim connecting, asking or answering questions about an issue of concern, or simply making it a time for hugs, jokes, and lighthearted hanging out.
May Allah help you and guide you and your children, always – Ameen.

 

Resouces:
http://www.islamnewsroom.com/news-we-need/1351-kids-who-dont-read-quran-or-pray
https://www.soundvision.com/article/8-ways-to-connect-young-muslims-to-prayer

As a parent its our responsibility to teach our kids,basics of Islam from early age. Make a special effort to educate them in interesting way. I have learned this from Alhuda , where they are teaching kids different Sunnahs and Duas with animated videos. I found them very informative and interesting for kids. Its a better way to teach your kids.

I am sharing two videos here you can teach from videos more effectively.
About Ramadan

If you have eaten by mistake during fast.

Parents hold enormous responsibility in terms of teaching and bringing up their children according to the guidelines of QURAN and teachings and traditions of our Prophet (PBUH).
The Prophet (PBUH) said:
“Allah (SWT) will ask every caretaker about the people under his care, and the man will be asked about the people of his household” (Nasa’i, Abu Da’ud).”

Character building of your children in the light of Quran and Hadith from a young age is very important. When a child is young, he or she is the most impressionable and absorbs knowledge just as how its taught.

A quote from Al-Ghazali that:

A child is a trust (placed by Allah) in the hands of his parents, and his innocent heart is a precious element capable of taking impressions.

Parents or Grandparents may not have accurate information as they may not have gone to classes for all aspects of Islam. Creating a bond with Allah and love for the Sunnah is more important then any other form of education.We are responsible if our child is living and practicing something wrong about Islam.

To keep Islam close to the heart of our kids we should send them in any Islamic institution where formal Islamic education enables a child to learn about Islam from trained and learned teachers and from reliable resources provided for them.

Last Month i started sending my kids In ALHUDA International  Attock Branch, where they were offering a Course MANAR UL ISLAM. It was my first experience, I myself attended all the classes with my sons. When your kids attend Islamic school, even if for an hour or two each week, he or she is exposed to other Muslim peers in their age group who are also learning.

They divided their curriculum in to four

  • Sunnah and Duas
  • Salah
  • Asma ul Husna
  • Group discussion

 

SUNNAH AND DUAS:
If Islam is not being practiced at home, our kids might never see the importance of Islam in their lives at all. Teacher of sunnah not only explained but also showed with pictures and videos about Duas and sunnah of daily life.

SALAH:

It was a lovely experience to see small kids from age 3 to 10 making lines ( Saf) for Namaz and perform Salah in a beautiful manner.

ASMA ul HUSNA:

Asma al-Husna means the most beautiful names of Allah.

The following is stated in a verse:

“To Him (Allah) belong the Most Beautiful Names.” (al-Hashr, 24)

The following is stated in Bukhari and Muslim about the most beautiful names:

“Allah has 99 names. Whoever memorizes them (believes in them and reads them by heart) enters Paradise.”

My son who is eight years old daily is asking, we will enter in Jannah after learning all 99 names? Its shows his interest. Teachers not only explains  meanings but also give examples from surroundings.

GROUP DISCUSSION:

Its an interesting way to discuss  and learn Duas in a group along with a group teacher. Children can learn and absorb more through activities and discussions.

I will post more information about Islam which we should teach our kids. I myself learned from This Islamic institution. Teach your kids basics of Islam.

Here are few pictures which i have taken from different classes of different age groups.